Blog | Lead with love
Learning our way forward
When you’re leading through uncertainty, it helps to adopt a growth mindset—treating every event as a learning experience so you can find the path that is otherwise hidden.
Three essential teamwork skills
It is still possible to practice these teaming skills, even over Zoom. And whether you’re a public sector team in crisis mode or a business managing all the uncertainty of this moment, you’ll benefit from them.
Embracing the discomfort of deep change
If ever there were a time for business leaders to take a moral stand, it’s now. So why is it a struggle for some?
Teamwork in the unknown
This lack of clarity is testing our ability to lead teams in a moment when we need teamwork more than ever.
Leading through the messy middle
The trick with the middle game is this: you don’t try to win. You aim to improve your position and options, until a way forward emerges.
Let people wobble
When you’re learning something, you wobble — it’s your nervous system responding to the unfamiliarity of a new move and course-correcting. That wobbling IS how you learn. And if we intervene to stop that wobbling, we inadvertently inhibit learning. Let people wobble!
Why the ending is important
Here’s a couple of reasons why it’s hard to end things, from a social science perspective, and why it’s so important, from a leadership perspective.
Opposing the status quo
Good storytelling is arguably the most vital leadership skill for motivating people through change.
Leading at your best in uncertainty
We can’t make the uncertainty — or the anxiety — go away. But we can lead through it with love not fear…
A kettlebell and a successful fail
When we are leading into the unknown, we operate in a context of failing — because we do not yet have the ability to implement something that we are only just beginning to master. The key is to focus on the way we lead, not the outcome.
The leadership team blindspot
Before leaving my post at SYPartners, I interviewed my colleagues about their experience of senior leadership teams — the teams that sit at the top of an organization.
Leadership is not a title, it’s what you do
Leadership doesn’t belong to those who occupy any particular role! It belongs to anyone who — from our TJA definition — “influences and motivates people to achieve a shared vision and improve an organization”.
The power of intention, the trap of expectation
The heart of leadership is intention — you cannot lead if you have no direction in mind for yourself and others to follow. But intention can become fixed in people’s minds as expectation, a hardened belief that something will happen vs an open-minded commitment to a purpose.
To lead is to learn
Getting to the next level of performance for you, your team, or your organization almost always requires a deep learning curve.
How to lead a difficult conversation
As leaders we are going to run into moments that need bravery — where emotional or political stakes are high, there’s disagreement, and a feeling of risk for at least one person.
The four conversations of a leadership team | Part IV
How to have a decision-making conversation.